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Swinging From One Relationship to the Next: Understanding Monkey Branching
Have you ever noticed someone quickly moving into a new relationship after their previous one ended – or perhaps even before it officially concluded? That behavior has a name: monkey branching.
In this heartfelt and honest conversation, DJ Mikey D and DJ Sophia Grace unpack the complex phenomenon of monkey branching – the relationship pattern where someone secures their next romantic partner before letting go of their current one. Through personal stories and psychological insights, we explore why people engage in this behavior, from fear of loneliness to boredom or even as a defense mechanism against painful breakups.
The discussion doesn't shy away from difficult truths. DJ Mikey D courageously shares his own experience with his ex-wife's pattern of relationship sabotage and emotional branching, illustrating the real-world impact this behavior can have on families and trust. Meanwhile, DJ Sophia Grace offers compassionate analysis of both sides – examining how monkey branching damages the person being left behind while also creating unhealthy patterns for the person doing the branching.
What makes this episode particularly valuable is its balance of understanding and accountability. We acknowledge the very human fears that drive this behavior while emphasizing that honesty and direct communication typically create less pain in the long run. The conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone who recognizes these patterns in their own relationships or has been on the receiving end of a partner who's emotionally moved on before officially ending things.
Join us for this thought-provoking episode of the Love Lounge that will transform how you think about relationship transitions. Whether you're currently in a relationship, healing from a breakup, or simply interested in understanding human connection better, there's something here for you. Check out greatdayradio.com for more episodes that get real about matters of the heart!
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Speaker 2:Welcome Great Day Radio fan and welcome to the Love Lounge, the podcast episode where we dive into the highs, lows and everything in between of relationships. I'm DJ Mikey D.
Speaker 3:And I'm DJ DeMarie For this episode. We're talking about a phenomenon that's gaining a lot of attention called monkey branching. Ever heard of it?
Speaker 2:Absolutely. It's that idea of jumping from one relationship to another before ending the first. It is kind of like how monkeys swinging from branch to branch in the jungle.
Speaker 3:Exactly, but it's not just a cute metaphor. It carries some pretty heavy emotional implications. Let's unpack what monkey branching really means and why people do it. Before we kick off the conversation, I would like to give a big shout out to our new TikTok and Instagram friends. A big shout out to DeeDee Fletcher from Seattle Washington, nancy Thompson on TikTok author and writer, albert Loftus on TikTok, tiara on TikTok and all new friends that joined our network recently. If you have a shout out or Thank you for your love and support.
Speaker 2:So DJ D. For our listeners who might not be familiar, how would you define monkey branching?
Speaker 3:Well, it's when someone in a relationship starts to look for a new partner before fully ending their current one. It's like they're branching out to see what's next, while still holding on to the current relationship.
Speaker 2:Right. So it's kind of a preemptive move. People are often seeking security or validation from the next relationship before they actually leave the old one. It is very similar to how I described my relationship with my ex-wife when we were talking offline.
Speaker 3:And it's typically driven by fears of loneliness, falling out of love or even low self-esteem. They don't want to feel single or alone for too long. Do you mind briefly explaining what we talked about?
Speaker 2:Sure, I won't get too much into the topic for sake of time. My ex-wife, prior to my son being born, attempted to leave the relationship then again just before the pandemic, and one other time before finally going through with the divorce While I was away finishing grad school in Washington, she had what she describes as an emotional relationship. In her words, he was giving her the attention that she needed that I was not giving her. Again, not going to get too chatty about it, I would encourage you to visit greatdayradiocom for more in-depth discussion on this topic. Blowing story short, after much time apart since the announcement of the divorce, I realized that she has a pattern. For example, when a relationship gets serious, she self-sabotages the relationship by leaving or branching out. In our case, once we were married, the sabotage still existed. I believe now that she has been involved in online dating apps and testing the waters. However, because of circumstance, she never 100% committed to those relationships, but instead strung me along.
Speaker 2:There are at least two proven facts. She ventured outside the marriage. We are both guilty of doing so. However, when a one-time incident occurred on my end, I knew that we needed intervention. I chose family and showed up there after hoping we can get past our issues. Okay, back to what you stated. You bring up an interesting case in point to what I just mentioned about my relationship. What motivates someone to monkey branch? Was it always malicious?
Speaker 3:Thank you, Mikey D, for sharing your viewpoint in relations to your recent divorce. To answer your question, not necessarily. Sometimes it's about fear of being alone. Other times it's about boredom or seeking excitement. Some people might be afraid to face the ending of a relationship and do it gradually instead.
Speaker 2:It's also worth noting. For some, it's a defense mechanism, avoiding the pain of a breakup by having someone else lined up first.
Speaker 3:Exactly, but of course that comes with its own set of emotional consequences for everyone involved, especially if kids are involved.
Speaker 2:From what you have learned. What kind of impact does monkey branching have on the relationships involved?
Speaker 3:It's often pretty damaging. The person being left can feel betrayed or heartbroken because they might find out the truth later on.
Speaker 2:Ain't that the truth? And the person doing the monkey branching? They might feel guilty or justify their actions, but it usually erodes trust over time.
Speaker 3:Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Once it's broken, it's tough to rebuild. Plus, if someone's constantly monkey branching, they might struggle with commitment overall. That's a good question Are there's constantly monkey branching?
Speaker 2:they might struggle with commitment overall. That's a good question. Are there situations where monkey branching could be seen as justified or understandable?
Speaker 3:Some argue that if a relationship is truly toxic or beyond repair, ending it by gradually leaving may be a softer approach, but even then, honesty is usually the better path.
Speaker 2:True Deceiving someone or leaving while still emotionally involved can create more pain, even if it's less sudden.
Speaker 3:It's a tricky balance. Ultimately, open communication and honesty tend to be healthier strategies.
Speaker 2:So what can listeners take away? Be mindful of the motivations behind your actions. Are you signaling genuine readiness to move on, or are you just avoiding hard feelings?
Speaker 3:And for those on the receiving end if you suspect someone's engaging in monkey branching, remember that your worth isn't defined by someone else's choices.
Speaker 2:Great advice. Thanks for tuning into the Love Lounge. Remember healthy relationships are rooted in honesty, trust and respect.
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